Couples come at the start of a new relationship for me to help them plan the kind of relationship they want to achieve, more often they come after One or other has come. Couples may come at the start of a new relationship in order to get help and support to make their new relationship as joyful and glowing as possible and to plan how they want their relationship to be. They more often come after one or the other had had an affair and trust has broken down. sometimes couples come to know how to part ad amicable as possible, especially if there are children involved. Others come because their relationship has become flat and stale. Others because they are spending a lot of time arguing with each other – sometimes with violence involved. Some couples come for psychosexual counseling because they want to improve their sex life.